Some wisdom from our Native American brothers:
An elder Cherokee Native American was teaching his grandchildren about life. He spoke to them.
"A fight is going on inside me ... it is a terrible fight, and it is between two wolves. One wolf represents fear, anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority and ego. The other stands for joy, peace, love, hope, sharing, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, friendship, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too."
The children thought about it for a minute and then one child asked: "Which wolf will win"?
The old Cherokee simply replied ... "The one you feed."